This is a formal event that is black tie optional. We want you to feel comfortable and confident. Generally, tuxedos, full suits, dresses or gowns are a strong fit. We request that you do not wear colors that are traditionally reserved for the bride - whites, ivories, and creams.

While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding ceremony and reception an adults only event. This comes with the exception of the children in our bridal party and immediate family.

Weather permitting, the wedding ceremony will be outdoors. Our cocktail hour will be roaming-style, with plenty of indoor rooms available, as well as the beautiful outdoor patio space. The reception will follow, in the grand ballroom. All areas of the mansion are ADA-accessible!

We ask that our guests please put your phones away during the ceremony! We have two fabulous photographers, plus a videographer, that will be capturing the moment for us, so that we can be in the moment with all of you. Feel free to use your phones at any other time during the evening!

Yes! Please note any food allergies and restrictions in your RSVP.

Yes, mother.

Yes, there's plenty of parking space available!

The mansion is not only the wedding venue for our special day - it is also connected to a beautiful and newly renovated hotel! We have a room block set up that you can book with on our "Travel / Hotel Stay" page - let us know if the block fills up and you have trouble booking, we can always add more rooms! **The mansion is the best and closest option for stay- the next closest would be the Hilton Garden Inn in Roslyn, about a 25 minute drive away!